Wedding Hairstyle

I've been growing my hair long for 9 months, always with the intention to wear it down on the wedding day. I've been having second thoughts after watching Lipstick Jungle and seeing Victory Ford's beautiful updos.

I love that headband look. Today I finally succumbed and bought a feather headband fasinator from Diva. I also found more headband looks and am seriously thinking that this is the look. Only problem, headbands give me headaches. I tried it on today and after 5 minuts my head started to hurt. I think I will pull the headband apart and reattached the feathers to a cloth band like below which will be kinder on my head.